Big, small, perky, or cone-shaped, breasts are always beautiful. For many women, they also happen to be highly erotic and rich in nerve endings. Some women can even reach orgasm simply by having their breasts stroked and massaged. Of course, men are big (and small) fans too, as breasts offer something wonderful for both partners to enjoy.
We All Crave a Different Touch
But what makes for great breast play? Just like the rest of sex, everyone's preferences are different, so experimentation is important. Some women like it soft and sweet, not much more than a gentle caress or kneading with the flat part of the hand, a soft kiss, or a lick. Other women like a rougher approach: Pinching or lightly biting the nipple can be an electrifying sensation, sending ripples of excitement throughout the body. Nipple clips with vibrating clamps, comfort clamps, and chains offer a little kinkiness, as well as customizable pressure for just the right sensation.
Timing Your Touch
It's a good policy to always approach the nipple slowly and carefully to get a sense of what a woman likes. Most women need some arousal from kissing, cuddling, and touching other, less-sensitive parts first. If she’s farther along the arousal cycle when breast play begins, she will find it much more pleasurable and arousing. If done too soon, breast stimulation can be experienced as jarring. When her nipples become erect it’s a good visual cue of arousal. She may even arch her back or move her partner’s hands to that area. If timed right, breasts are a hot button for sexual arousal.
Breast Stimulation During Sex
There are many other ways to enjoy the breasts, especially during intercourse. Men often like to have their partners on top so that they can enjoy the view of their favorite female parts, but he can also reach around and stimulate this erogenous zone in other positions, such as man-from-behind. If you crave more stimulation on your breasts, try wearing a revealing shirt, a sheer bra, or nothing at all when you are making love. Or try fondling yourself in his view. Many men find watching a partner touch herself highly erotic, and it’s a good way to highlight any spots where you want him to touch you.
Don’t Forget His Nipples
Men can also enjoy chest or nipple stimulation. Experiment with this erogenous zone by kissing his chest or running your fingernails gently up and down his torso. Sucking or lightly nibbling on his nipples can also be quite pleasurable, but remember, just like for you, this is a very sensitive area. For both men and women, the important thing to know when it comes to this part of the body is to be careful and pay attention to your partner’s body language.
Keep experimenting and exploring new facets of your sexual arousal to discover sources of pleasure you may not have thought of before. Variety is the spice of life!