Put on a Burlesque Show at Home

Being naked is sexy, but undressing is even sexier!

Of course, not every act of undressing is sexy, especially if you are more the drop and go type. But there is a sexy way to undress, a way to make this everyday event into an art form. The act of slowly disrobing, teasing, and tantalizing the imagination can be highly erotic, which explains why everyone from burlesque dancers to strippers have such appeal.

Ready to learn how? Grab the strobe lights and keep reading:

Get Your Costume Ready
First, you have to prep your costume. You can’t do a sexy striptease if you are wearing granny panties or unflattering briefs. If you typically aren’t into lingerie, you can still “sex up” your usual under-clothing by wearing a sexy pair of boyshorts and a tank top. If you are more daring, try the classic garter belt with a thong and thigh-high nylons. And, remember, the more clothing you have on, the more you will have to take off, which will give you more time to slowly reveal yourself. You can even use props like a feather boa or wear a sexy pair of satin gloves that you can slowly peel off. Ultimately, the most important thing is that you feel comfortable and happy with your outerwear and underwear. Confidence is crucial for a sexy striptease!

Music and Lights, Please
Second, set the scene with the right lighting and music. Harsh, bright lights are not flattering for anyone, no matter how many hours you spend in the gym. Instead, opt for sexy candlelight, or try a pair of colored light bulbs or strings of lights. Think blue, red, or even pink. Anything that will cast a seductive glow around the room is a good choice. Next, pick music that gives itself to slow, purposeful movement, like classic R & B or atmospheric jazz. If you prefer to have a more upbeat striptease, think pop or eighties rock, something that will get your partner smiling and in the mood.

Start Taking It Off!
Third, get stripping. Once your partner is in position, start the music and get active. It might help if you have a glass of wine to loosen up, but remember not to overdo it. Instead, just try to listen to the music and slip into a sexy frame of mind. Remember, your partner is going to love what he sees, regardless if you miss a beat or show some nervousness.

Get Some Audience Participation
Fourth, include him in the act. Now that you are disrobing and getting in to character, it is time to include your partner as well. Start giving him a seductive chair dance by straddling him and gently gyrating on his lap. Let him look but don’t let him touch. Maintain control by using your hands and even your breasts to gently caress him.

Finally, it is time to undress your partner! Now that he is your willing hostage, begin unbuttoning his shirt and slowly run your hands over his chest. Pull off his shirt and then make your way to his pants.

Use your teeth to gently unhook his belt (or your hands if you don’t think you can pull this off). Throughout your act, remember to maintain eye contact and share plenty of deep kisses. Before you know it, he will be out of his clothes and ready to go!