Sexy, Naughty Ways to Put on a Show for Your Partner

You can bring back the novelty in your sex life by pretending as if you don't know each other — better yet, act as if you don't know you're being watched. He gets the naughty excitement of peeping, and you get the thrill of putting on a show.

Try taking a shower while he sits fully clothed with a prime view of the action. Or draw a bath and slowly and sensuously shave your legs. Cook dinner for him wearing nothing but an apron, or watch an erotic video and touch yourself. You can even turn something completely mundane, like paying the bills, into a sexual fantasy when you slip on a garter belt and fishnets!

If you're feeling really adventurous, give him a pair of binoculars and let him spy on you from outside. Or maybe you're the one who wants to do the peeping? If so, ask him to switch roles with you and peer in on him as he showers or shaves in the buff. It can be highly erotic to watch and view him simply as a sexual being.

You might also consider taking your show on the road. For example, if you are returning home from a date night and want to have sex, don’t wait until you reach the bedroom. Start making out in the car and maybe even have your partner pull over to a safe location where you can explore a little motor-vehicle foreplay. Even if you end up finishing the deed at home in the bedroom, just knowing that you are so attracted to each other that you can’t resist touching each other that very moment is highly erotic. If you aren’t comfortable making out in your car in public, there are numerous ways to explore this option, such as by performing oral sex on each other after you pull into your driveway and are safely ensconced in your garage, or pulling each other’s clothes off in the hallway as you walk toward the bedroom.

If you are feeling a little more daring, there are a number of locations other than the bedroom to consider when having sex. The bathroom is an obvious good place to start, as is the kitchen (plenty of counter space!). Or, if you have a fenced-in backyard with privacy, grab your partner and make love under the stars.

Another way to create spontaneity and excitement outside the bedroom is to just implement more touching into your daily routines with each other when you are away from home. For example, hold hands as you walk through the grocery store, or scratch his back as you wait in line at the movie theater. Cuddle against him on an outdoor picnic, or sit in his lap when you are entertaining in your backyard. Every day you can look for new and surprising ways to keep that physical connection alive and sizzling!