A true vixen knows how to seduce her partner. We all know that flirting, kissing, and romance are all a key part of date night, but you can make your sexual connection even more intense by setting the mood long before your date night begins. Thanks to modern technology such as text messages, you can titillate and excite your partner throughout the day. Here’s how:
Get Yourself in the Mood
Before you seduce your partner, you should allow yourself to fantasize, plan, and begin to feel the tingling excitement of the seduction to come. Start by making sure that you take the time to feel confident during the day, whether that means wearing a form-fitting dress or your best lingerie underneath your boring work clothes. Just spending five to ten minutes extra in the mirror in the morning can give you a confidence boost all day long, even if no one else around you can exactly put their finger on your new glow. Most importantly, think about your plans for the night and all the fun you are going to have with your partner, and let your anticipation color your whole day with excitement and sex appeal. Reap the feel-good benefits of anticipation. After all, you are one-half the equation, and if you aren’t in the right frame of mind, the whole vibe will be off!
Set the Mood Early in the Day
Don’t wait until night falls to seduce your partner. By then, you will probably both be too tired to truly enjoy each other. Instead, start your seduction early in the morning. Bring him a cup of coffee in bed and greet him with a long, affectionate kiss. Keep the kids busy elsewhere as you give your love a little extra attention in the morning.
Don’t have time for all that? Just hop in the shower together and spend five minutes washing each other up. Turn off the news channel (which can be stressful and a real mood-killer) and instead play some feel-good music to get you both in a better frame of mind. At the very least, make sure you take the time to give each other one real kiss and try to surprise your partner with a little unexpected sexual energy. Slip him the tongue, call him by a name you use only in the bedroom, or flash him a little cleavage. He certainly will have a hard time concentrating in his morning meeting!
Seduce Each Other With Technology
Now that you have your partner in a sexier frame of mind, strike while the iron is hot. After a few hours have passed and your partner is no doubt stuck in a midmorning slump, send him a little “pick-me-up,” just as a seductive text message or picture. Not sure where to start? Try texting him something simple but suggestive like, “Can’t wait 2 c u 2nite” or “Let’s put the kids 2 bed early.” Just let him know that you are thinking about being alone with him.
Pictures are worth a thousand words, but if you aren’t into the thought of taking nude pics of yourself, you can send him a picture of your lacy bra with the message, “Can’t wait 4 u 2 take this off me 2nite.” It’s okay to feel a little shy or awkward, especially if you are new at the seduction bit. However, the more you do it, the more comfortable you will feel, especially when you see how enthusiastically your partner responds.
As with anything in life, the more you practice the art of seduction, the better at it you will become. Both you and your partner will learn to anticipate “Seduction Night” and you can take turns turning each other on.