Having sex requires nudity, right? Wrong! Wearing one or two strategically placed pieces of clothing while you have sex can amp up the excitement for both of you. It gives the impression that you simply can’t wait any longer to have each other — and trust me, leaving a little to the imagination will only add fuel to the fire.
It's easy to incorporate clothing into your next lovemaking session. Here are a few ideas for items that can turn up the heat in your next passionate encounter:
Skirts: Wearing a flouncy skirt without any underwear gives him an all-access pass to your nether regions, while keeping things covered up. This is a great option for those who are daring enough to try semi-public sex.
Boots: Whether they're thigh-high stilettos or brown-leather cowboy kicks, boots signify strength and power — with just a hint of domination. Wear them with nothing else, and he'll be quick to let you go for a ride.
Bras: A lacy, beautiful bra is a time-tested turn-on. You can simply leave it on through the whole session or tease him by seductively slipping off a strap at a time while he's pleasing you.
Blouses: A partially unbuttoned blouse gives him a sexy peek at your cleavage, while preserving an air of mystery and seduction. For men, what they can't see is often just as enticing as what they can.
Stockings: Women's hosiery has been a staple of the sexual wardrobe since the days of the pin-up girl. Thigh-highs and the more audacious crotchless variety allow you to get right to it while looking and feeling like a glamour girl.
- Wigs: While this may not exactly be an article of clothing, wearing a wig for a night can give him a huge thrill. He gets to safely act on his fantasy of being with a bombshell brunette, a wild redhead, or gorgeous blonde, and you get to reap the benefits! Plus, you can let go of any inhibitions while you play the role of a sexy stranger.
You don’t have to limit your sexy dress-up to foreplay. You can use this inspiration throughout your day-to-day life as you make your fashion choices. For example, instead of assuming that low-cut shirts or thigh-high skirts are always sexiest, you can drive your partner crazy with anticipation by leaving something to the imagination. Instead of donning that tight low-cut shirt, why not opt for a sensual top that falls just ever-so-slightly off the shoulders and shows off your neck and collarbone? You might not think of this as a sensual area to focus on (especially if you have gorgeous décolletage to highlight), but the neck and shoulders are a sexy and much-neglected area that can drive your partner wild, especially if you dab on just a hint of perfume.
Additionally, instead of choosing the obviously sexy route with an animal print or bright-red nail polish, just go with your best self, which just might be a T-shirt and jeans and a soft, nude pastel polish. In other words, if you prefer wash-and-go, embrace your curls and don’t spend hours straightening your hair and stressing out to look like a fashion magazine cover. Nothing is sexier than being your true self, whether that means dressing demurely or donning a pair of crotchless panties!