March 21 - April 20
Ideal Friends: Leo, Scorpio, Sagittarius, Cancer,
Best Lover: Libra
Most Suitable Life Partners: Libra, Capricorn, and Cancer
Best Fit for Children: Leo
It’s not that Aries doesn’t care about you or your feelings. It’s simply that he lives life in the fast lane and doesn’t see the sense in wasting time trying to sweeten or mince his words. This “meat and potatoes” kind of person always calls it like he sees it, especially when moved to anger. There is nothing scarier than an Aries sauced-up on a heaping dose of “mad.” You can watch his blood boil as he turns red, rages, kicks screams, and then…forgets all about it. This can be very hard to take, at least until you understand that this is just how it is with Aries. With any luck, you can train him to apologize.
Aphrodisiac: Attract Your Aries With a
Most Aries men don’t need a lot of convincing when the possibility of sex registers on their radar. However, if you want to make sure he notices you, act like you don’t care. Aries gets high on the idea of conquest, and the more you push him to prove he’s worthy of you, the harder he’ll try to get you. One thing you should know: Eventually, if you allow him to get close enough, he’s just going to go in for the kill and whisk you away with him. His approach is primitive, admittedly, but what can be so bad about being literally swept off your feet?
Friendship: Aries Needs Adult Supervision
Being friends with an Aries can be like taking care of a child, but not the babe-in-arms kind. Aries is far more like a mischievous toddler. In addition to rampant impatience, Aries has this thing about getting attention and care. If it says “do not touch,” Aries must have his hands all over it. When you have problems, you’ll have to forget about them — because his are bigger. Not the most supportive listener, Aries can still be a lot of fun, and you’ll enjoy doing things together — even though they’ll be the stuff he loves more than you do. You’ll watch lots of contact sports and take a shot at daring activities, from rock climbing and skeet shooting to riding a motorcycle way too fast down a narrow, winding canyon road.
Sensuality: Aries Is H-O-T
Life around an Aries can indeed be somewhat dangerous, but it’s also breathtaking and compelling. You’ll find out more when you and this wild child get into bed. Aries is very assertive about sex, sometimes annoyingly so. Yet, most of the time you’ll find it’s a good thing that he can’t keep his hands off you! Mars, the planet that drives Aries’ forceful approach in bed, is the original Red-Hot Lover. In need of constant variety, Aries will amaze you with his originality and voraciousness. All this sexy stuff doesn’t mean he is without need for a bit of training, though.
Type of Lover: Aries Is Passionate, but
Needs a Slower Hand
Aries is quick to be seduced but often clueless about the fact that he might also need to seduce you. Just like before, when you first attracted him, your most effective strategy will be to act unimpressed, until he gets the idea that you’re there in the bed with him for more than just watching him get off. Then, you can make him slow down and see what it takes to get you to keep paying attention to him! This isn’t easy, and it’s fine to resort to dire tactics. You might even want to introduce him to your collection of sex toys to bring home the point that you like getting pleasure, too. If nothing else, he’ll work harder just to make sure those little gadgets of yours don’t usurp his position as your #1 lover!
In Bed: Aries is Fast and Furious in
Aries is a very athletic sex partner. You might want to get on an aerobic training program if you expect to endure multiple sessions with this hard-hitter without losing control of your breath and your heart rate. Once you get to the point of keeping pace, though, you’ll delight in how fast and furiously the orgasms “come.” Aries’ most sensitive spot on his body sits atop his neck. During those (rare) times when he needs to be coaxed into cuddling and making love, a head massage administered with proper amounts of suggestion will drive him crazy. Paradoxically, while Aries is the epitome of impatience, you will have to develop patience right along with him, as you await his ability to meet you emotionally and spiritually as well as physically. Loving words and thoughtful gestures will go a long way toward bringing him onto all these levels with you.
In Relationships: Aries Believes in Love at
Aries will see you, decide he wants you, and go after you, often before he even really knows you! You’ll be his “girlfriend” after one or two dates if he’s decided you’re the one for him. You might need to create structured situations where the two of you can talk about your feelings. Suggest going out on dates where you get a chance to converse as well as grapple with each other. That way, you can set up some parameters and get Aries to hold up his half of the partnership, from tending to your feelings to taking out the garbage.
The Heart: Underneath it All, Aries is
Aries is forever a little baby, so even though he’s rough and tumble, you must be gentle when interacting with his emotions. He will need reassurance of your love for him and will accept hourly texts, daily phone calls, and minute-by-minute descriptions of all the things you love about him as payment toward ownership of his loyalty. Aries men do not tend to stray. They tend to follow you around, much like a little toddler, constantly trying your patience but simultaneously hoping to win your approval. Aries might act tough, but he’d be crushed to think he did anything that would make you reject him.
Breaking Up: Aries Won’t Want to Hear It
Even if you catch him red-handed, cheating on you, Aries will wonder how you could ever break up your wonderful relationship. He will be wounded and upset by your decision, but he will eventually accept it. Just like one of his temper tantrums, this battle will end and he will forget all about it, remembering the good times, yet accepting and respecting both of your rights to move on.
Aries won’t be likely to talk about his ex-lovers with you, but you can bet they’re out there somewhere! If you’re willing to go along with your ram’s agenda, which basically requires you to take care of him and let him take care of the rest, you will have no need to worry about him straying. However, if he doesn’t think you love him the way you should, he’s not beyond looking elsewhere, if for no other reason than to make you realize that he, too, has options. It isn’t really hard to earn Aries’ respect and loyalty, but first you have to appreciate him. Once he knows you love him just the way he is, he’ll worship and adore you enough to compensate for all the times he makes you want to scream.
Staying Sexually Fit: He Needs Exercise
Outside the Bedroom
Aries is a powerhouse and, even if not in top physical shape, can still have the kind of endurance you would usually see in athletes. When he’s not devouring your body in bed, he could benefit from exercise that requires poise and balance as well as speed and strength. Although you might have to drag Aries there, yoga class would be a good place to start, perhaps then followed by something more rigorous such as kickboxing or another kind of martial-arts experience. Aries needs to balance his need to discharge excess energy with the focus and gracefulness it takes to avoid injury — and to be an even better lover.
Astrologer Judi Vitale brings the Love and Sex Horoscope to you daily. She is the author of Lovecasts: The Astrological Guide to Finding Lasting Love.
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