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Love & Sex Advice from Dr. Laura Berman

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Dr. Laura Berman, PhD, is the leading expert on love, sex and relationships. For years she has been sharing her wisdom on radio and television, as well as in her books and columns, addressing every sex and relationship issue you can imagine. As a sex educator, researcher, and therapist for more than 20 years, there is nothing she hasn't heard! She has helped countless women, men and couples build stronger relationships, improve their sex lives, and achieve a heightened level of intimacy. Here, she answers questions about love, sex, intimacy, family, and everything in-between.
  • Help — I'm Too Busy for Sex!
    Help — I'm Too Busy for Sex!I want to have a better sex — or at least more sex — but I don't know how to make it happen! I'm a 22-year-old student with two part-time jobs and two children under the age of 5. I'm always exhausted, but I want to be closer to my partner. What should I do?
  • How Can We Get the Spark Back in Our Marriage?
    How Can We Get the Spark Back in Our Marriage?My husband and I have been married for six years. We love each other and we're both still interested in sex, but it feels like the spark is gone. I'm worried we're going to get so bored that one of us will go elsewhere for sexual excitement. Help!
  • He Loves Receiving Oral Sex, But I Don't Love Giving It.
    He Loves Receiving Oral Sex, But I Don't Love Giving It.My husband's really into getting oral sex, but I'm not really into giving it. It's not a huge part of our relationship, but sometimes things get awkward. He feels like he's missing out and I feel guilty turning him down. Is there any way I can learn to like it more?
  • Is There Any Good Erotic Reading Out There?
    Is There Any Good Erotic Reading Out There?When it comes to turn-ons, porn doesn't really do it for me. I know that a lot of people are really into movies and magazines, but I like to read erotica more than I like to watch it. Is that normal? And do you have any recommendations for erotic reading?
  • Can I Still Have a Normal Sex Life With Genital Herpes?
    Can I Still Have a Normal Sex Life With Genital Herpes?I was diagnosed with genital herpes in 2001. My outbreaks sometimes have me in tears for days. How can I try to have a healthy sex life when it's so easy to pass along this disease? It makes me feel like I'm not worthy because I'm "dirty" now.
  • Is It Okay to Fake the "Big O"?
    Is It Okay to Fake the "Big O"?I'm 28 years old and I've never had an orgasm. I've been in several relationships, but none of my exes know that I was always faking. It's too embarrassing to admit. Is there anything I can do to make it happen, or is this just the way I am?
  • How Can I Make My Spanking Fantasy Come True?
    How Can I Make My Spanking Fantasy Come True?I have fantasized about being spanked since high school (I am now in my early fifties). I want my husband to spank me and have told him about my fantasy, but he seems to think I'm crazy. Am I?
  • Why Can't I Reach Orgasm With the Perfect Man?
    Why Can't I Reach Orgasm With the Perfect Man?I just found the man of my dreams, but when we had sex for the first time, I could not have an orgasm. He's a great lover, but I just couldn't get there! I've been masturbating for many years, and I'm afraid I might have damaged my clitoris. Is that possible?