Sexy Fun With Food

Food and sex are two of life’s greatest pleasures, and there is undoubtedly a connection between them. Just think about it! How many things in life are approached with such relish, enthusiasm, and reckless abandon as food and sex? They are a natural pairing that have the potential to complement each other magnificently, as they both fill people with powerful, primal urges. Not to mention, both good food and good sex are endeavors of passion, experimentation, and enjoyment. Therefore, it’s high time to learn a little more about embracing the two together!

In the Bedroom
Serving up a buffet in the bedroom requires a little creativity and an appetite for the unusual. Have fun with flavors — why not try a little whipped cream on his chest and hot fudge on yours? You can mix things up with some salty olives or a juicy, sweet mango. Include some beverages with your feast, too. Keep a cup of hot chocolate next to the bed and a bottle of champagne on ice. The vastly different textures and temperatures of each drink will add to your sensory experience — try taking a sip of one before kissing him, then take a sip of the other and let him taste the difference. The rush will be noticeable, whether you're kissing his lips or a more creative location. And it doesn't have to be all about your taste buds — a few ice cubes can take a massage to the next level.

Any finger food or edible delight will do — it all depends on your personal tastes. Just be sure to avoid contact with your genitals, since you can increase your risk of infection. Clean him off before you have intercourse, or better yet, hop in the shower together to keep the fun going. Bon appetite!

In the Kitchen
If you don’t have time or money for an elaborate date night, consider staying home and cooking your own gourmet feast. Cooking together can be highly erotic because it will get you tasting, touching, or smelling all kinds of different spices and flavors. Not to mention, it’s a hands-on activity that allows for plenty of sexy activities like feeding each other and making out while the soufflé sets (something which probably be frowned on at a restaurant).

Even if you aren’t an expert chef, there are many simple ways to make your night at home sexy and tasty. Consider the following:

Think basic. Don’t try to make something complicated like lobster risotto. Instead, think fresh, flavorful basics like grilled steak and veggies or comfort food like spinach lasagna. Go to sites like foodnetwork.com or allrecipes.com and search for recipes which are rated “easy” or “intermediate.” Read through the recipe from start to finish in order to make sure that there won’t be surprises (a.k.a. you need a seasoned wok or a hard-to-find exotic herb).

Set the scene. Open a bottle of wine, play some upbeat music, and have fun with it. Don’t worry about making mistakes (worst comes to worst, you can order takeout and laugh at your dismal kitchen skills together). You can even theme your night, such as by making Mexican classics like fish tacos and margaritas. Play some classic Mexican beats and don a sombrero... and maybe nothing else! Remember, date nights can be cheap and sexy — you just have to get creative!

However you decide to savor food with your partner, the important thing is to enjoy it and, more so, to enjoy each other’s company. That way, no matter what you’re cooking up — in the bedroom or the kitchen — it’s bound to be delicious!